Respectful Parenting

How to be the best parent you can be by connecting with your child and holding your boundaries respectfully.
Browse this section for inspiration if you're struggling with some unwanted behaviours.

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5 Early Signs of Autism

5 Early Signs of Autism

Good to know ⬇️You can't diagnose Autism from an Instagram post, but it's important to be aware of SOME of the things you might observe and think about if your...
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Your child's brain, why they're misbehaving and how to help when they're losing it

Your child's brain, why they're misbehaving and how to help when they're losing it

What to do ⬇️Sometimes our kids seem to lose it over the smallest things, like what colour cup they drink from or suddenly deciding they don't want something they've asked...
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Taking Breaks Outdoors

Taking Breaks Outdoors

We were losing it ⬇️Sometimes it feels like a military operation trying to get kids outside or to do anything but we do A LOT of it because we see...
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Sharing my chaotic evening of parenting

Sharing my chaotic evening of parenting

Hats off to solo parents.Bedtime can be SOOOO triggering. All you want is for everyone to calm down and go to sleep so you can finally have some time to...
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What to do when your child won't stop misbehaving

What to do when your child won't stop misbehaving

This really works ⬇️We've all fallen into this pattern:Our kids are constantly pushing our buttons by misbehaving and arguing and our tone becomes clipped and annoyed. We snap more, we...
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Can't control our kids but we can manage their environment and control ourselves

Can't control our kids but we can manage their environment and control ourselves

It all went wrong.We truly can't control our kids.We CAN control ourselves and we CAN manage the environment.I'm NOT saying we should take away all of a child's accountability for...
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The Parenting Trap we all fall in to

The Parenting Trap we all fall in to

Play the long game.👌Keep your responses short. You don't even have to say anything at the start (or if you're struggling to regulate yourself) - just stay quiet and be...
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Should we punish a child when they have a tantrum?

Should we punish a child when they have a tantrum?

Expect tantrums.We can't expect children to have the self control and executive functioning skills to stop and think "hang on, last time I had a tantrum it didn't feel fun...
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We need to be kinder to kids (and each other)

We need to be kinder to kids (and each other)

Let's be kind.We cant be in each other's brains so we have no idea how someone else is coping.What might look like a child being very ""naughty" is most often...
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Supporting your child to play with their friends and siblings

Supporting your child to play with their friends and siblings

Model model model.- can I sit with you?- can I play?- what are you playing?- can I have a turn?- it's your turn now- let's play together! Watch the full...
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What to say when your child is testing boundaries

What to say when your child is testing boundaries

Become untriggered.They're doing what they're supposed to be doing. Kids test limits - it's part of brain development. It's a good thing.Try not to take it personally- instead fill up...
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Should Kids do Chores?

Should Kids do Chores?

Child labour?Taking the time to involve our kids in daily tasks has so many benefits.- they get to learn life skills- they're alongside you learning language and connecting- heaps of...
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Misplaces Mum-Guilt

Misplaces Mum-Guilt

Do they actually care?Or are you just beating yourself up??Go easy on yourself. When I gave birth to my second child I was so upset about losing time with my...
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Kids know their bodies – Trust them!

Kids know their bodies – Trust them!

Respectful parenting looks like trusting our little one’s body!I’m happy to be a stuck record on this one. When we follow our child’s lead and let them explore the park...
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How I handle it when my 3 year old hits his 1 year old sister

How I handle it when my 3 year old hits his 1 year old sister

Every behaviour is a communication. My son doesn’t WANT to hurt his sister. He loves her. But he’s 3, his brain is underdeveloped and he doesn’t have the capacity like...
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Supporting a Frustrated Toddler

Supporting a Frustrated Toddler

Practice makes perfect for both kids AND adults. The ability to regulate emotions like an adult doesn’t happen until you’re an adult! And, think about it, even now it’s bloody...
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4 ways to make leaving the park less of a drama

4 ways to make leaving the park less of a drama

Leaving the park can be hard work, especially when our kids are enjoying themselves. Here are 4 tips for leaving the park without resorting to harsh tactics.
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